My mom is doing well. About 99% mentally recovered, one month out from our hospital adventure that started on the 12th, last month. Physically, she can walk unassisted (uses a walker in crowds) and is tired, but gaining stamina by the day and only requires a few naps a week now. Barring any more setbacks, she should be driving again mid-January. PT says she should regain all her pre-event strength and overcome the right side weakness within about 6 months to a year!
The neurologist says it well could have been a hard bump to her head and concussion (as 2 other doctors have already told her that was what they believed), or maybe it "just happened". She is taking medication and, as long as she doesn't have any other issues, goes back for yearly neurology check ups. He acted as if her care should be rather routine and non-complicated. Oh, we could do with some non-complicated!
Mom is between eye surgeries, the cataract removals she had scheduled before seizure storm. The first eye was done a week ago. The second eye is to be done in another week's time. She has been legally blind since she was 7, vision correctable enough to drive and ready with really thick, heavy, expensive specialty lenses. After the first surgery, she is seeing better from her right eye than she has in 65 years! Even without the extra expense of "corrective lenses" (she has astigmatism so will always need some glasses to compensate for eye shape issues, so didn't see reason to pay to do more than cataract removal) her right eye, that was seeing about 20/800 is now seeing 20/30! Praise the Lord!!! She is eager to get the second eye fixed so her extreme difference in vision ends the dizziness she is facing right now.
Our family will be taking a trip out-of-state later this month. What was originally planned as a medical trip for one of our children has become a special set of plans for the entire family, with the medical aspect now only being about two hours, one tiny facet, out of several days. We hope to celebrate my brother-in-law on his actual birthday (and my sister-in-law who had her birthday last month) while we are within an hour of their home. I know it will be exhausting, but I'm looking forward to making some special memories with my loved ones. Please pray for all five of us in all aspects of this travel, including reduction of stress for kids who have lived with more than their fair share of medical settings already and for wisdom and clear communication with the doctors and other medical staff involved.
Weather permitting, we should be back in Reno for my Dad's 72nd birthday and then Thanksgiving Day. My beautiful friend, Kendra, has taken care of this year's Thanksgiving meal with my parents, so there should be next to no preparation involved. Thank you, Dear One (and for the beautiful butterfly that landed in my mailbox this week! Your hand writing is getting so good!)!
A dear blog-reader-turned-friend and fellow stroke survivor, Denise, just came through open heart surgery this morning. We really didn't think she would survive the surgery, but it was a given that she would not survive more than a couple more days without the surgery. It apparently went much better than anyone had dared to hope. Denise is in recovery right now and could sure use your continued prayers!
I am really, really wanting to get my current book manuscript finished up and contracted with a publisher! This is the third Christmas season in a row that I have set as my target date to have it finished, and I'm still not done! This writing thing is going so painfully, agonizingly slowly! I keep trying to remind myself that pre-stroke timelines and expectations are no longer reasonable with post-stroke brain, but I really am discouraged by the slower-than-snail-pace progress for this project! I'm just praying that God is planning to use the book in a big way, as it sure has been a struggle to get written!